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Training

We will provide access to professional training to prepare you to properly and safely handle and store your firearms. Our certified trainers are located across the county and are ready to arm you with the knowledge and skills you need, either in a one-on-one session or classroom environment. If you are unable to pay for this training, a grant may be available. Check out some of our local trainers.

Firearms Ownership

We will assist you through the process of purchasing a firearm that fits your needs and budget. We will help you find a discounted price from a reputable, licensed dealer that can process the legal paperwork. If you qualify, a grant may be available. Check out some of the best shops in San Diego.

CCW Permit

To carry a firearm outside of your home, you must possess a California CCW permit issued by the San Diego Sheriff. We will be there to guide you through the process and “hands-on” training needed to obtain this permit. If it is financially prohibitive to get this permit, a grant may be available. Get information on how to apply for your CCW.

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Favorite Firearm:

My M&P Shield 9mm, I had it cerakoted a custom blue!

Why Firearms:

Having knowledge and confidence using firearms safely can empower themselves with the tools to protect him or herself and not be a victim.

Firearms Fitness Background:

Desi Bergman serves as the Program Director for NotMe, a self-protection initiative designed to empower women through education, training, and support. Her mission is clear: to help as many women as possible arm themselves with the knowledge and tools to become their own protectors. With a deep passion for personal safety and individual empowerment, Desi takes pride in the impact she makes on women from all walks of life.

Desi is a certified NRA Pistol Instructor and Range Safety Officer (RSO), bringing both experience and compassion to every training session. When she’s not on the range, Desi enjoys practicing Krav Maga, kayaking, traveling, and soaking up the sun at the beach playing volleyball.

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